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Proverbs 13:10
Only by pride cometh contention, but with the welladvised is wisdom.
Matthew 20:21
And He said unto her, "What wilt thou?" She said unto Him, "Grant that these my two sons may sit, the one on Thy right hand and the other on the left in Thy Kingdom."
Matthew 20:22
But Jesus answered and said, "Ye know not what ye ask. Are ye able to drink of the cup that I shall drink of, and to be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized with?" They said unto Him, "We are able."
Luke 22:24
And there was also a contention among them, which of them should be accounted the greatest.
Romans 12:10
Have kindly affection one for another with brotherly love, in honor preferring one another;
Philippians 2:3
Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem the other better than himself.
3 John 1:9
I wrote unto the church, but Diotrephes, who loveth to have preeminence among them, receiveth us not.