As thou hast said: They all resolved to do what Ezra had commanded; and they did put away their wives, even those by whom they had children - Ezr 10:44, each of whom doubtless received a portion according to the circumstances of her husband, and was not turned away desolate. Humanity must have dictated this, and no law of God is contrary to humanity.
so must we do: Ezr 10:3, Ezr 10:4, Neh 13:23, Psa 78:37, Psa 78:57
Reciprocal: Lev 5:5 - confess Neh 5:12 - We will restore